Have you at any point looked in the mirror and felt so shaky and badly prepared for the job , thinking about how to pound self doubt and push ahead through everyday life and business. Self doubt is really deadlier than dread. Self doubt is the deeply dark and plain awful. It comes to cast a dim shadow over your deepest dreams and desires and whisper in your ear, “you can’t do this” or “you’ll never achieve your goals”. When nothing can be more distant from the truth. Truly you can and truly you will. I am here to expose this terrible little achievement sabotager and train you to recognize it and to pulverize self doubt and achieve your goals like a boss!
Pulverize self doubt by being straightforward with yourself and face the agony
One of the essential elements of the mind is to close out torment. Without scrutiny, this is where self-denial can become a deeply entrenched habit. It’s really an automatic reaction that rears its ugly head every time we are confronted with the truth about ourselves. Of course, there can be a great deal of agony related with confronting your issues, taking calculated risks, escaping the familiar, mastering new skill sets, and not to mention earning a million dollars. It is the agony of “what if I fall flat on my face? That troublesome little voice inside your head is doing whatever it needs to in order to shield you from the agony of progress or worse, the threat of defeat. If your going to smash self doubt, you must recognize the voice, silence the voice and get to work.
Squash self doubt by assuming full responsibility for where you are today
This revelation alone will help you to pulverize self doubt. Here’s why. We trained to protect out fragile egos by looking for someone or something to blame for our current situation. When you refuse to accept responsibility for your current situation, you become a powerless victim. You hand your control over to whomever or whatever you fault for your situation. In time you will begin accept and trust that your destiny has just been fixed, so why even try . That is known as a “fixed mindset”. But the truth is that somebody’s life could be changed if you move beyond your stuff. Of course, you will be the first to benefit.
Just like the infamous Jim Rohn says: “it’s not the blowing of the wind, but the setting of the sail” that determines the outcome of your life. Recognize that a similar breeze blows on every one of us in some shape or form. It’s our obligation to “set our sail”, i.e., in what capacity will we react to the breeze. Will we assume full liability for conveying an incentive to the world or will we flounder in self indulgence and hole up behind blame shifting. If you are going to smash self doubt in your life, you will work with what you have, not mumble about what you don’t have.
Embrace the art of Loving, Accepting and Respecting Yourself
Squash self doubt by loving, accepting and respecting yourself. You are wonderful, brilliant and uniquely gifted. You are a stand-out gem. We live in a world loaded with antagonism and negativity where so much is against us. In any case, I’m here to let you know, you can battle against this and win when you figure out how to place a high value on yourself, without the all the guilt. You may need to get in the mirror and rehash again and again: “I am wonderful”, “I am deserving of achievement”. This brings me to my next tip which a weapon that will enable you to smash self doubt and win this internal war!
Create a Life of Positive Affirmation
This is a strategic weapon in pulverizing self doubt. Love and regard yourself enough to set aside the time to reprogram your mind with a positive affirmations. Design a few short positive affirmations that you can recite when your alone every day. Be sure to use the current tense, i.e., “I am”…not “I am going to”. Use the positive tense, for instance: “I am pain free”, not “I will never again experience the migraine headaches”.
You can create positive affirmations for your life, well being, family, finances or wherever you need a breakthrough and pound self doubt.
It will appear to be odd at first in light of the fact that most of these declarations don’t seem genuine right now. Be that as it may, be mindful that this is an exercise to crush self doubt. So which would you rather say..”I am a disappointment or I am a victor”? You are essentially “considering those things that be not, just as they are”. This an intense and and awesomely powerful tool.
Immerse Yourself in a Positive Community that Resonates with You
You can crush self doubt quicker when you encircle yourself with people who have done and are doing the same. You will be invigorated and fortified as you lock arms with the individuals who are also going after their dreams and interests, smashing self uncertainty and conquering fear, not rationalizing and feeling frustrated about themselves. In our cutting edge times, we’ve lost that sense of collaboration and community. My recommendation to you is that you find your people and crush self uncertainty together.
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Taking Action Will Crush Self Doubt
The constant state of pointing and never actually shooting is adding to your self doubt.
Acquiring knowledge is great if you combine it with developing skill sets and taking action.
Nothing crushes self doubt like taking “massive imperfect action” right now! Consistent action creates momentum. Momentum creates change. Change creates results (eventually). Results create confidence. Confidence crushes self doubt.
Results make a liar out of self doubt. If you never make a move and create momentum, you never encounter results. When you don’t encounter results, that troublesome little voice in your mind says,”Ha ha, I told you so”. You can close down that voice by essentially making a move.
As you continually make moves, you will begin to conquer your self doubt and start to develop and advance.
You are unique. You have a special gift. There is a universe of individuals simply sitting tight waiting for you to overcome your fears, pound your self doubtand help them to achieve their most noteworthy potential.
So what are you sitting tight for? Apply these strategies to your life and business and crush self doubt like the boss that you are!
XO
Elaine
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