I know, I know, creating a vision of who you want to be is a pretty bold statement. But I’m here to let know, it’s actually possible within reason that is. But most people get so caught up and reactionary to life’s events, that they don’t sit down and actually ponder the possibilities. If you’re reading this article then that’s clearly not you. No, you want more out of life and you know that it is possible.

Does this describe you or someone close to you?

Perhaps, you are unhappy about where you are in life. Maybe, you feel yourself just going through the motions and tolerating your life. Can you remember the last time you actually belly laughed, sincerely? Do you blame those around you for your slightly miserable state? Are people starting to avoid you or walk on eggshells when you enter the room? Think back to recent thoughts you had. Do you find yourself struggling with negative thoughts? Do you sometimes feel like you’ve hit a roadblock? 

This could be because you haven’t taken the time to create a compelling vision of the person you want to be or the life you want to live.

What is a Life Vision

A vision is a big picture of who you want to be and what you want your life to look like. It can be used as a practical guide, whereby you can create goals and even action plans that you can incorporate into your life on a daily basis. It should be a living document, that can alter based on feedback from your experiences and circumstances. I would suggest that it is written down and infused with some fun elements as well as rewards to keep you going.

Why it’s smart to create a vision for your life

Some of the smartest people who you may even admire more than likely have sort of life vision. You just never stopped to think about it. 

Guess what, you need one too and here’s why: Everything starts with clarity. A vision is a tool that gives you clarity. Without, clarity, you will be confused, indecisive, and All. Over. The. Place. Your vision shows you where you are going. It helps you to create goals that you love and that actually make sense because they are based on something concrete. Your vision will provide the focus and the strength to push through obstacles. 

This is what happens in your brain:

When you create a positive image within your mind, it will set up neural pathways to help you reach your goals. The more you reinforce this mental image the more pathways will be created. There’s power in looking at your vision board, brainpower. According to this article, vision boards (a recorded representation of your life vision), prime your brain to recognize an opportunity. 

When you have determined your vision and the steps you believe will help you get there, continue to imagine that vision. Do this on a daily basis. Your brain will get so used to this vision it will become a subconscious process. Your subconscious could be working it out for you even when you are unaware.

Creating a Life Vision is a process and you are NOT a failure:

Plans are guidelines only. They can be changed as needed. This can happen when new information comes to light along the way, information that wasn’t available when you first got started. Remember, increased clarity comes as you take action. This is totally normal.

Creating a vision of who you want to be is a living moving breathing process. This is not to say you can’t alter your plan or your vision. There may be something you thought you wanted, but as you progress, you find this not to be the case. There is nothing wrong with that. If this happens, simply pivot and update your vision and move on from there. Your brain will form pathways for this new vision as well. You are not a failure. 

You might just need a plan

Suppose you may have already created your life vision at that really fun vision board party you attended, but you still feel stuck. Now that you’ve clarified your vision, you need a strategic plan to get there. I know, no one told you about that part of the process. Yup, so after you’re good with your vision, you need to create the goals to support that vision and then the tactics to reach those goals. That’s how it works in a nutshell. 

You will be on an exciting adventure that will cause you to grow in ways that you’ve never imagined. You’ll be well on your way to becoming that person that you need to be to reach that lofty vision you created for your life. 

Get ready for the Negative Nellies

Be prepared for criticism while creating this new vision for yourself. It is yours and yours alone. There may be some people who may not understand where you’re headed. That is totally fine. It comes with the territory because most people resist change, even if someone else that’s changing. Stand firm to your beliefs and dreams of a better life. Your critics are not the ones who have to live with the vision you create for yourself. You do. You will even notice that when you reach your goals those same critics will suddenly be cheering you on. They may even claim to have been supporting you the whole time. It’s annoying, but that is how people behave. Folk is fickle. It’s not worth the aggravation trying to figure it out. 

Just move on with your vision and let them think whatever they want. After all, you only get one shot, you might as well make it your best one.

Be well + prosper,

Elaine xx